When we, as women, get nervous or anxious, we make excuses. We make excuses about not loving ourselves, about not taking care of ourselves, and why we aren’t worth it. Sometimes, life is too busy, there’s too much going on at work, or we need to bring our kiddos to all of their activities. Sometimes, it’s more important to spend time with our significant other. We tend to use other excuses to – “I want to lose 15 pounds first,” or “I want to save up the money first.” No matter what the excuse is, the Bomsquad wants you to know that you CAN do it – you are worthy of the self-love, time, and investment in yourself!

“I don’t have enough time for myself”
I can’t think of a single person I know who hasn’t said this at least once (sometimes once a week). It’s important to remember that if you aren’t taking care of yourself (mentally, physically, spiritually), then it makes it that much harder to take care of everyone else. I know I am the WORST at creating boundaries in my life and giving myself the mental health breaks I need, and I definitely need someone to sit me down and say “slow down – take a break.”

At a boudoir session, you are able to step away from the hustle of everyday life to pamper and celebrate yourself for a few hours. Think of how much more energy you can put into others, when you feel refreshed and recharged again. You need to take time for yourself, why not spend some of that time having an amazing time getting glammed up for once?

“I need to lose 20 pounds before I do this!”
My response to this is “you absolutely do not!” The body type portrayed as “ideal” in the media only fits about 5% of American females. FIVE PERCENT. It is not worth putting off doing something you really want to do until you reach an almost unattainable standard.

We believe in loving yourself! We will be the biggest supporters of helping you achieve your goals to get healthier – but that doesn’t mean you have to put your life on hold before you get there! You should love yourself every step of the way. Why not celebrate where you are now? (Then we’ll help you celebrate again when you reach your goals!)

“I don’t feel sexy anymore.”
Well, let us help you reach that side of you again! What better reason to do this than for YOURSELF?
It is so easy for us to lose touch with our femininity or our sexuality, between the last few years of pandemic mess, and the every day life of work, school, kids, fur babies, etc! It happens way more than you think, and way more than is talked about. This feeling is normal and okay! Lots of people use this type of session to help them reignite that spark inside of themselves – we can help you find it!

Another thing to keep in mind is that you don’t HAVE to wear super sexy clothing or lingerie. The most important part of doing a boudoir (or beauty) session is that it’s all about you! We want to help you bring your personality out – and we’ll help you find other outfit ideas to do it.

“This is too expensive. I can’t afford it.”
While this totally IS an investment, it’s an investment into yourself. You’re investing in self-love and confidence. How often do we do that? (I know for me, it’s next to never).

As far as the actual cost investment goes, we have payment options available! It may be way more affordable than you think! We’ll walk you through the whole process – set up a consultation call to go over all your options!